I didn’t want to write this article. I don’t really like to think about people like Bonnie Blue or what she does ‘for a living’.
There are many reasons for this, the chief of which is that I believe people like her corrupt one of the most beautiful things about being human: our sexuality.
Sex is something that is meant to bring people who care for eachother closer. It’s the ‘secret’ you get to share with the one you love. It’s precious, and a huge part of that is its potential to bring forth new life: this is the closest to ‘playing God’ we get to experience as human beings.
It’s not something that was ever meant to be casual or bought and sold.
In contrast to what I believe sex is meant to be, I know that prostitution is the ‘oldest profession in the world’ as they say. This does nothing to take away from the degrading nature of it, or the harm it causes to those who do it, those who pay for it, and society more broadly.
We are told again and again that Andrew Tate is “toxic” and “harmful”, and – while I’m not sure if he’s the biggest bad wolf out there – I would agree that a man who goes around teaching others how to make women fall in love with you so you can control them is a rather large piece of shit.
I’m aware that Tate has been accused of involvement in human trafficking, but for the purposes of this article I will stick to what I have heard coming from his odious mouth.
I’ve seen a video in which he brags about pretending to be a cam girl on WhatsApp (so the unsuspecting simp can’t see who he’s really chatting to) and about how he fooled lonely men into sending him huge sums of money, believing they were helping the girl they have developed feelings for. That is evil.
The absence of the anything like the same level of criticism for a woman, the consequences of whose actions, are also extremely damaging is so noteworthy.
I don’t see discussion on RTÉ about how tramps like her corrupt the minds young women. Look at how many are using OnlyFans to sell themselves as, please excuse the term, wank-bank fodder.
The case against Tate is that he promotes misogyny. Does Bonnie not do the same in a different way by making tons of money from allowing groups of strange men to use her body as a semen receptacle?
I recently saw a preview of some of her content in which a very young looking woman was dressed like a little girl with pigtails and was about to be gang banged by a room full of disgusting men. Is that not “toxic” and “harmful”?
She also targets “barely legal” teenage students to participate in her degeneracy.
The more we detach sex from love the more people will suffer. Just look around you. We all know a girl who thought that letting the guy she liked do his thing would make him love and value her, but that’s not how it works.
Bonnie perpetuates a belief that women’s chief role is to make themselves available to pleasure men, and that how ‘sexy’ and ‘up for it’ you are determines your value. I don’t personally think there’s anything ‘sexy’ about being the town bike on a global scale.
Something that bothers me is how society often seems to give women a break for their poor choices in a way that is usually not afforded to men. When a woman does something foolish it seems as though there’s a rush to understand where she’s coming from when a man in a similar state is simply written off.
I don’t feel sorry for Bonnie Blue. I don’t want to know what’s in her head or why she does what she does. I don’t really care if she wants to make a show of herself, but it doesn’t end with her making a show of herself.
Her carry on is harmful, embarrassing, and insidious. Women and girls don’t deserve to be degraded in the way her messaging normalises, and men don’t deserve to be treated like hungry dogs being thrown scraps of rotting meat.
Bonnie Blue should be regarded as someone who is sick and in need of intervention, because that’s what she is. I prayed for her before writing this article, and I will pray for her again as I end it.
There is always hope.